Shoes, underwear, jewellery and the total · updated September 2026
What the Rest of the Outfit Costs
The dress is the number brides search for and the outfit is the number they pay. Veil and accessories run a median $166 across 596 reports, and the all-in figure lands at a median $1,600 against $850 for the gown by itself.
Below: what goes underneath and why the bodice decides it, what shoes cost in comfort rather than money, what brides borrowed instead of buying, and itemised breakdowns of the whole outfit.
The number that matters is the all-in one
Three lines make up the outfit and only one of them is the dress. The median gown is $850, the median tailoring bill when a bride paid one is $500, and the median veil and accessories line is $166. The all-in median across 2,086 reports is $1,600.
The gap between the gown and the total is the part that surprises brides, and it is not evenly spread. A made-to-measure dress cut to your own numbers can arrive needing no alterations at all, which removes the middle line completely. A sample two sizes out adds the most to it. Which route you take changes the total more than which gown you pick, and those routes are set out on the where-to-buy page.
What goes underneath
The bodice decides this. A structured gown with boning and cups sewn in needs nothing under it, and that construction is part of what the price buys. A soft or unlined dress needs its own support, and a full skirt needs something holding it out.
- At the 200 dollar level the dress is cheap enough to experiment on: she took a seam ripper to the tulle underskirt herself rather than paying a seamstress.
- A pink dip-dyed petticoat under a white ball gown is the cheap way to get a colour effect, done by one bride at her own wedding.
- Alts NYC drew complaints: a large-chested bride got a cotton cord instead of a bra band and was told to buy her own corset, and another bride says Alts damaged a shower dress and charged nearly the dress price; the West Village location got better reviews than Williamsburg.
- Lace-trim hems are done by removing the lace by hand, hemming the satin, lining and crinoline, then reattaching the lace, or by taking the dress up at the waist instead.
- A heavy petticoat plus a many-layered skirt is very hot; the bride who asked says it works for her April wedding but would be unwearable in July or August.
- A bride who owns multiple fajas and shapewear pieces said basic shapewear would not have changed the silhouette under this style of gown, and that only a custom compression garment would, which would have been miserable to wear all day if she was not used to it.
- Shapewear can backfire in photos: one bride wore it under a velvet gown to a formal wedding and felt it made her look bound rather than smooth, and would skip it if she could redo it.
Two practical points repeat. Smooth fabric shows everything, so shapewear lines print through satin and the fix is a different garment rather than a different size. And a petticoat is frequently the cheaper answer to a skirt that hangs wrong, standing in for an alteration rather than following one.
Shoes
Money is not the constraint here. Comfort is, because this is the only part of the outfit worn standing for twelve hours.
- Wooden clogs as bridal shoes rated 7 out of 10 for comfort from the bride who wore them: fine for most of the day, painful by hour eight.
- A full-outfit breakdown from a European bride: gown 700 EUR, alterations 180 EUR in house, veil 160 EUR, shoes 150 EUR, jewellery and underwear about 100 EUR. Her point is that the gown is roughly half the real cost of getting dressed.
- Two brides make the same practical point about where the money should go: comfort first, and spend on the veil, shoes and jewellery because those can be worn again. One had a veil remade into a christening headband for a friend's daughters.
- The standard planning split quoted here is 5 to 10 percent of the total budget for all couple attire: gown, shoes, veil, jewellery, shapewear, alterations and the partner's outfit combined.
- Prepaid boutique preservation packages can cover up to five extra items (veil, shoes, undergarments) for the same $325, which brides call good value.
- A one-layer A-line is at the cheap end of cleaning ($150); fuller skirts with more layers cost more, and shoes can be preserved in the same order.
The point that actually saves money has nothing to do with the shoes themselves. Take the exact pair to the hem fitting. A hem set against a different heel height is a second alteration, and a hem is the most common alteration there is.
Jewellery, hair and what brides borrowed
This is where the accessories line goes to nothing or goes to hundreds, and the deciding factor is usually whether somebody in the family already owns a veil.
- David's Bridal as-is off-the-rack dresses run 50% off if your size is there, and the chain sells shoes, belts, tiaras and veils cheaply; Anthropologie Weddings (formerly BHLDN) dresses are returnable, ship faster than salon orders, and go on deep sale (a Wtoo by Watters gown was linked during a sale weekend).
- The consistent cheap-alternative advice to altering a gown is accessories: a pearl choker or multi-strand necklace, drop earrings, a small tiara rather than a crown, and hair with pearls woven in. Several brides push real pearls, including borrowed family pieces, over sewn-on fake ones.
- One bride funded her own stretch by selling scrap gold: a part-full pill bottle of broken chains and old earrings brought $3,000, and she advises shopping several buyers for the best rate.
- Accessories carry more of the bridal signal than the gown for non-traditional brides: veils, headpieces, flower crowns, tiaras, brooches, added beading and hair jewels were repeatedly suggested as the way to turn a costume-ish dress bridal without changing the dress.
- Veil, headpiece and belt plus alterations added about $650 to a $700 dress; a cape veil was folded into a roughly $3,000 total.
- Borrowing the veil and hairpiece from family cut this bride's accessories cost to nothing on top of a $1,200 gown.
The argument brides make for spending here rather than on the gown is re-wearability. Shoes and jewellery outlive the day; the dress usually goes into a box. What that costs to do is on the preservation page, and the veil has a page of its own.
Outfit breakdowns, line by line
The accounts that itemise rather than giving one number are the most useful thing here, because they show where the money actually went.
- Full 2015 California boutique breakdown: 1600 Maggie Sottero dress, 300 alterations, 500 custom lace jacket, 350 in two veils, 100 shoes, 80 Spanx, total 2930.
- David's Bridal reference point: 650 dress plus 472 alterations. A groom's full outfit (suit, shirt, bow tie) cost 450.
- Full cost breakdown from this bride at a Texas bridal salon in 2025: gown 2,200 USD, veil 900 USD, about 3,400 USD with tax for both, and a separate alterations quote of nearly 900 USD. Her mother paid for the veil.
- Post-wedding cleaning was quoted at 300-500, on top of 500 in alterations, for a dress worn 2-3 hours and left filthy. That is the full cost picture one bride uses to explain her regret.
- Atlanta 2016 breakdown: hem on a big layered skirt about 250, 8-point two-layer bustle about 150, bust and waist darts made up the rest of an 800 bill.
- Cost breakdown as a sanity check for DIY brides: about $194 total spent, of which only $68 is the finished gown. Sunk costs on trial fabric were roughly as large as the dress itself.
| All in | Gown | Veil and extras | The account |
|---|---|---|---|
| $65 | $60 | $5 | Sequin party dress worn for an elopement, veil from the same site; only the bust was pinched, shapewear underneath |
| $300 | $200 | $100 | Belt and veil added for 100; warns stores upsell add-ons |
| $515 | $500 | $15 | Used dream dress 500; veil 15 in the LA Fashion District, near-identical to shop veils priced in the hundreds |
| £825 | £800 | £25 | Sample dress 800 GBP instead of 2000+ to order; the shop's 145 GBP veil found identical on Vinted for 25 |
| $1,220 | $900 | $20 | Veil from SHEIN for 20. |
| $1,600 | $1,000 | $200 | Gown retailing at 5000 bought on StillWhite for 1000; still needed 400 in alterations plus a 200 custom veil. |
| $1,860 | $1,500 | $110 | Sample negotiated down from 2500; 250 cleaning; 110 rhinestone sleeve details; alterations unknown |
| $2,144 | $1,414 | $280 | Cassandra gown, 1414 after tax and shipping; size 0 taken in at sides for 100; Twigs & Honey headpiece 280; 2144 total includes 350 shoes |
| $2,500 | $1,500 | $400 | August 2026 bride; veil 400; alterations quoted at 600 but not yet done |
| £3,015 | £3,000 | £15 | Charm School dress with cap-sleeve shrug; 3000 before alterations, sample fit so few expected; mom's budget ~4000; 75 shoes; 15 hair comb |
| C$3,650 | C$2,000 | C$700 | 2000 made-to-order gown that still needed 950 plus tax in alterations; veil 700; now wishes she had bought cheaper |
| $5,100 | $3,600 | $700 | Dress price excludes tax |
Every all-in figure brides gave
2,422 brides reported a total for the whole outfit and described it. These name one number rather than itemising, which is why they do not appear on the price-range pages.
They are in the all-in archive, four hundred to a page.
Questions about the rest of the outfit
How much do wedding dress accessories cost?
A median $166 across 596 reports covering the veil, jewellery, shoes and everything worn underneath, with 140 brides spending $500 or more. The all-in figure is the useful one: a median $1,600 against $850 for the gown alone, because the tailoring sits in there too at a median $500.
What do you wear under a wedding dress?
It depends on what the bodice does. A structured gown with boning and cups sewn in needs nothing, which is one of the things a bride is paying for. A soft or unlined dress needs a strapless bra or a bodysuit, and a full skirt usually needs a petticoat to hold its shape. The recurring warning is about smooth fabric: shapewear lines print straight through satin, so try the whole combination together rather than the dress alone.
Is a petticoat cheaper than altering the skirt?
Often, and it is the substitution brides mention most. A hoop or petticoat adds volume for around the price of one alteration, where reshaping the skirt itself is skilled work on many layers. It cuts the other way in summer: a heavy petticoat under a layered skirt is described as unwearable in real heat.
What shoes do brides wear, and does it matter?
Comfort decides this more than looks, because nothing else in the outfit is worn for twelve hours standing. Brides recommend shoes they would wear again and warn that any shoe is fine until about hour eight. The practical point that saves money is unrelated to the shoes themselves: bring the exact pair to the hem fitting, because a hem set to the wrong heel height is a second alteration.
What do brides skip?
The veil is the most commonly borrowed item, from family or a friend, which takes the accessories line to nothing. After that: a second pair of shoes, the garter, and bought jewellery in favour of something borrowed. Where brides did add spending, the argument they give is re-wearability, since shoes and jewellery survive the day and the gown usually does not.
How much does a wedding veil cost?
Veils ranged from 7-65 online to 600 for a cathedral veil and nearly 1,000 at boutiques; Etsy capes cost 80-110 and a homemade veil about 45 in materials. One bride's advice was to never buy the veil in the store. Veils here ran 30, 150, 200 and 275 for cathedral length, 500 for a beaded lace cathedral veil, and 1,410 at Kleinfeld; a matching jacket topper was 360 CAD, and several brides regret the veil more than the dress.
Where do I buy a cheap wedding veil?
Etsy and overseas marketplaces. One bride got a waist-length pearl veil on Etsy for $60 and rates the selection better and the quality equal to bridal shops; another's daughter paid about $20 on AliExpress and the bridal shop staff assumed it was expensive. Etsy makers, secondhand apps (one bride got an unused $250 veil on Mercari for $35 shipped; Poshmark and Facebook Marketplace also suggested), David's Bridal's 3D floral cathedral veil at $350 with free in-store returns, and Shein, Temu or AliExpress at about $30.
how much should you spend on a wedding dress
The rule of thumb given here is 5 to 10 percent of the total wedding budget for the whole couple's attire, not just the gown, so a 12k gown on a 150k wedding is high but not absurd once shoes, veil, jewellery, shapewear and the partner's outfit come out of the same slice. In this 2017 discussion most brides paid 300 to 1,800 with a dense cluster at 850 to 1,600; the low end was 55 to 160 for online or non-bridal dresses and the high end 2,500 to 3,000 for couture or parent-funded designer gowns.
How much do brides spend on a second or reception dress?
Second looks ran 200-900 (200 evening gown, 400, 500 Jenny Yoo, 800, 900 sample), with a 120 last-minute replacement at the low end and a 3,000 beaded jumpsuit at the top; one bride got three dresses and two veils for 1,500 total, another paid 1,100 and 300 for vintage second and third dresses. Brides who bought two dresses paid 3,000 and 3,500, 2,000 each, 320 and 280, or 120 and 250 on eBay; one rented a reception dress for 75. Others skipped a second outfit entirely after spending 10,000 on the main look.
should i sell my wedding dress and buy the one i actually wanted
One bride said sell it and buy the dream gown outright. Most disagreed, saying a second dress costs a fortune, that the gown she bought suited her frame better, and that the accessories route gets her most of the drama for far less. Yes. A bride who bought a mother-approved gown later found the dress she loved at David's Bridal, sold the first one on consignment, and says it made another bride happy.
can you make your own wedding veil
Yes, and several did. Tulle from a fabric store costs a few dollars and a plain veil takes about an hour; one bride built a lace-trimmed veil with pearl drops from Amazon materials in a couple of days, another sewed rhinestones into mesh. Yes, two brides plan to DIY from fabric-store tulle and lace, suggesting the discounted remnants bin at Jo-Ann; adding horsehair ribbon trim costs about 4 on Etsy.
how do I stop comparing my wedding dress to other dresses online
The repeated advice is to cut the feed: leave the dress groups, stop watching Say Yes to the Dress and Four Weddings, delete saved photos, and reread your own first excited post about the gown. Several say the doubt stopped within days of stopping the scrolling. Stop looking. Multiple brides said continuing to scroll other gowns after buying is the direct cause of the doubt, and that revisiting the moment you first tried yours on is the antidote.
How much does a wedding veil cost and where should I buy it?
Salon veils ran 200-735 (350, 300, 250 GBP, 735 EUR) and Kleinfeld charged 1,900. Cheaper routes: Etsy 60-80, SHEIN 20, a 75 sparkly veil, a 50 cape, or a mother-made or heirloom veil at 0. One bride says she would skip the boutique veil next time. One bride paid $800 for a salon veil; another advises Etsy for veils, capes and overskirts at $200 or less.
Sources
Price reports on this page come from 118 public discussions where brides answered in their own words. Each comment that stated an amount became one row; notes are paraphrased, never quoted.
Discussions used on this page (118)
- 2023-09: What did you budget for your dress and what did you actually end up spending? (405 comments)
- 2022-03: How much have you spent or are you planning to spend on your wedding dress? (397 comments)
- 2026-04: Wedding dress regret… (372 comments)
- 2026-01: How much did your wedding dress cost? (369 comments)
- 2025-01: Wedding dress regret (368 comments)
- 2026-01: Is under $2,000 dress budget unrealistic? (367 comments)
- 2025-04: Wore this shein dress as my non traditional wedding gown 😍 $60. Veil was $5 (342 comments)
- 2026-03: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? From 2023 and on (316 comments)
- 2022-01: Is $500 an unreasonably cheap budget for a wedding dress? (270 comments)
- 2023-11: How much did you spend on your dress? (257 comments)
- 2024-02: How much did you spend on your wedding dress all together? (249 comments)
- 2024-11: Does anyone regret starting out at David’s Bridal? (241 comments)
- 2023-12: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? Did you regret it? (210 comments)
- 2025-09: Where are y’all finding low cost dresses? Budget <$2k (196 comments)
- 2016-01: Can we get down and dirty about dress prices? (189 comments)
- 2022-01: I am a May 2022 bride who said yes to her dream dress but does not want to spend $600 on a veil. Can someone lead me towards a stunning, affordable, and stylish veil? (188 comments)
- 2023-09: I haven’t bought it yet, but I think I found my dress today. Going for a midnight disco wedding vibe. Is there a dupe for #1? (186 comments)
- 2026-02: Buyers remorse wedding dress $1800 (182 comments)
- 2026-04: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? From 2023 and on (179 comments)
- 2026-06: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? (171 comments)
- 2025-10: Wedding dress prices (171 comments)
- 2025-10: Be Honest - Is $950 for a veil too expensive and excessive? (169 comments)
- 2026-02: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? (150 comments)
- 2025-03: Is this really how much dresses cost? Feeling sticker shock (142 comments)
- 2022-03: How realistic is it to plan on spending $500 or less for a wedding dress? (132 comments)
- 2024-12: I wanna see your budget dresses!! (130 comments)
- 2023-03: Where to buy a cheap/affordable yet pretty wedding dresses? (129 comments)
- 2025-08: Do you regret getting an expensive wedding dress? (123 comments)
- 2022-09: How much was your dress? Do you regret it? (121 comments)
- 2025-05: How much did you pay for alterations of your dress? (115 comments)
- 2017-04: How much did you spend on your dress? (114 comments)
- 2021-08: I bought my own wedding dress for £120 and love it! However, friends and family think I should do the traditional thing of going to dress shops and make a big deal of trying lots of styles on. Has anyone else gone for a super budget dress/outfit for their wedding? Did you regret it? (112 comments)
- 2022-02: How much did you all spend or intend to spend on your wedding dress? (111 comments)
- 2025-12: Budget has been blown. How much are/were your weddings? (108 comments)
- 2025-04: I want to pay for my daughter’s wedding dress but I’m clueless about dress prices. (105 comments)
- 2026-08: ($20k) Cannot afford to alter dress, will a bra that adds 2 cup sizes save me? (103 comments)
- 2022-07: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? (99 comments)
- 2025-08: £200 wedding dress budget? (98 comments)
- 2025-10: (7k) Under $150 dress regrets? (98 comments)
- 2026-05: ($10k) how much did you spend on a dress? (98 comments)
- 2019-07: Your dress budget: goal vs reality (98 comments)
- 2025-04: A reminder that your wedding dress does not have to cost your soul! 💚 (96 comments)
- 2022-11: How much did your alterations cost? (93 comments)
- 2026-08: What did you guys pay for alterations? (90 comments)
- 2021-03: Wedding Dress Regret?? Maybe? (Also would love recs for shapewear!) (87 comments)
- 2025-03: Is $600+ normal for alternations? (84 comments)
- 2025-11: How to Handle Expensive Flower Girl Dresses for My Nieces at My Cousin’s Wedding? (83 comments)
- 2022-04: How much did you pay or budget for your wedding dress? (79 comments)
- 2026-04: I have a limited budget so I’m buying a dress off of the rack (76 comments)
- 2025-08: Can’t fathom paying over $1k for a dress (76 comments)
- 2025-09: How much do wedding dresses cost? (76 comments)
- 2017-08: What did your wedding dress alterations cost? (75 comments)
- 2021-10: Is an expensive dress worth it? (73 comments)
- 2018-05: how much is too much for a wedding dress? (71 comments)
- 2026-02: Where did you guys find affordable wedding dresses? (70 comments)
- 2026-06: (8-10K) Thoughts on buying secondhand dress and counting on reselling it after the wedding? (69 comments)
- 2022-03: Dress budget? (68 comments)
- 2022-08: How much are you/did you spend on your wedding dress? (67 comments)
- 2022-06: Alterations only cost $50! (66 comments)
- 2015-10: Do you regret how much you spent on your dress? (66 comments)
- 2026-02: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? (64 comments)
- 2013-09: Anybody else frustrated with alteration costs? (64 comments)
- 2021-08: How much did your wedding dress alterations cost? (63 comments)
- 2023-06: Cost of dress alterations? Gut check (62 comments)
- 2025-07: Rue de Seine "Desert Rose Veil" used re-sell or cost share? (59 comments)
- 2018-07: While I may not be 100% sold on this being my dress yet, this $70 Amazon dress is really great! Any budget brides out there (holla), do not fear this dress! (59 comments)
- 2024-11: How much did you spend for your wedding dress alterations? (57 comments)
- 2020-04: How much did you spend on your dress? How much of your budget went to your dress? (55 comments)
- 2022-03: How much did your wedding dress cost? (54 comments)
- 2018-09: How much did you spend total on your wedding dress after alterations and was it worth it? (52 comments)
- 2025-11: ($15k) Alterations costing an arm and leg?! (51 comments)
- 2025-11: Slashing budget for dream dress? (48 comments)
- 2026-04: How Much Was Your Veil? (48 comments)
- 2025-11: What was your dress Budget? (48 comments)
- 2021-01: Honest opinion on dress? Bought on Sample Sale for my 2022 garden wedding! (48 comments)
- 2021-05: Found the perfect dress for our Las Vegas Elvis wedding, can’t wait to wear it. $232 from Lulus (48 comments)
- 2026-02: Will I regret not buying a traditional wedding dress? (47 comments)
- 2024-08: How hard is it to sell a wedding dress? (45 comments)
- 2022-08: Brides: what alterations did you get and what did they cost? (45 comments)
- 2026-04: Wedding dress normal cost? (45 comments)
- 2016-12: Show me your under $500 wedding dress! (44 comments)
- 2018-05: How much did you spend on your wedding dress before and after alterations? (44 comments)
- 2021-07: Azazie Dress Review!! Overall a good purchase for the price, more info in the comments (43 comments)
- 2024-06: The $279 wedding dress I bought online with a $30 petticoat underneath (42 comments)
- 2024-06: Brides who spent more than they budgeted for their dress, do you regret it? (41 comments)
- 2024-07: Alterations Cost More Than Dress - What?! (41 comments)
- 2025-07: ($14k) My $30 wedding dress from FB Marketplace (41 comments)
- 2021-08: Fiance wanted a ring with wood. I wanted shiny stones. This could be a nice set but oh so expensive! It will cost more then my full dress and shoes and his suit combined. Thoughts on how much is too much? (40 comments)
- 2026-07: Dupe for this dress, or is it worth it? (40 comments)
- 2024-11: Deciding on a budget for your dress (39 comments)
- 2024-09: Wedding dress budget? (39 comments)
- 2013-04: Think I found the dress... low budget so not everything I was looking for but I really do love it anyway. Thoughts? (36 comments)
- 2018-08: How much did your alterations cost? What did you get altered? (36 comments)
- 2026-01: Looking for an affordable dress in this style for under $200 (32 comments)
- 2026-02: (18k-20k) Wedding Dress Alterations - Typical cost? What worked and what didn't? (32 comments)
- 2023-10: My $99 Lulu's Dress (31 comments)
- 2023-02: How much do alterations cost? (30 comments)
- 2019-02: I bought my dress secondhand, and it only needed $64 in alterations! Best wedding purchase I made. 8 weeks to go! (30 comments)
- 2023-03: my mega cute and mega cheap wedding fit!! less than £300 for the dress AND shoes 😍 (29 comments)
- 2025-01: Super cheap princess wedding dress (29 comments)
- 2020-03: Can we discuss alterations costs? (28 comments)
- 2020-09: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? (USD$) (27 comments)
- 2013-08: Let's take a poll: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? (26 comments)
- 2022-07: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? Was it worth it? (26 comments)
- 2021-11: Can we talk about how I got my wedding dress on Lulu for less than $200!!!!! We are eloping on the beach in SC (25 comments)
- 2025-12: Looking for budget wedding dress shops! (22 comments)
- 2022-09: How much did you spend on your wedding dress? (22 comments)
- 2025-08: 50’s /60’s glam dress ? Where are you ? Also on a tight budget. (20 comments)
- 2025-02: Need Veil That Does Not Cost As Much As A Dress (19 comments)
- 2016-10: How much did you spend on alterations for your dress? (16 comments)
- 2024-12: Wedding Dress Preservation.... Worth it or can I save the money? (14 comments)
- 2021-03: How much did you spend on your reception dress? (14 comments)
- 2022-12: How much did your alterations cost be what did you have done? (13 comments)
- 2023-03: Bay Area alterations costs? Just to help me avoid sticker shock 😂 (13 comments)
- 2019-06: How much did you spend on Alterations to your Wedding dress? Is $500 average for a quote, or should I keep looking? (13 comments)
- 2026-09: PSA: If you’re just starting to wedding plan, when you budget for your dress,l definitely budget a healthy amount for alterations. (12 comments)
- 2025-08: Dress alteration cost reasonable? (12 comments)
- 2025-02: Cost to clean and preserve? (11 comments)